How the Process Works … and will it work for ME?
Very often leaders don’t have someone they can trust to turn to for honest advice or feedback. They serve a wonderful group of people, yet they don’t feel comfortable going to a group member to talk about their concerns.
That’s where I come in – I’m on the “outside” of your circle. I can listen to what you share with a degree of impartiality that no one else in your life can offer. You can say anything about your life, your ministry, your group members, your marriage, etc. and I don’t know anyone so it remains “anonymous”. This allows you to be completely honest.
When you can be completely honest with your thoughts and feelings, something wonderful happens. When you can share what’s really on your mind without worrying about being judged or criticized, it frees you up! Very often clarity comes immediately – even as you speak! Part of how the process works is that as you speak honestly from your heart, it opens you up to receiving the truth or insight you need to make good decisions. I’ve seen it happen many, many times – just as someone is wrestling with an issue and trying to explain it to me, they have a light bulb moment. “Ahhh, I see now. That’s what the issue is. That’s what I need to change.”
Part of how the process works is this: Having an objective, compassionate listener gives you the freedom to be who you really are. Being affirmed in who you really are is very powerful. It strengthens you internally. It tells you, “It’s okay to be you. You’re not crazy. You really are important and valuable and your perspective is needed just the way it is.” If you’ve never experienced this before, you’ve got to try it. It will change your life!
The other part of how this process works is that as you share, I invite the Holy Spirit to speak to us. Most people think of prayer as something you DO & that’s the only time they spend talking to God. I consider the most important part of prayer to be LISTENING to what God is saying. So as you talk, I listen – not only to what you are saying, but also to what the Holy Spirit is saying or highlighting to me.
I’ve been doing this for years – it’s a finely honed skill – to listen to both Him and you and to hear what’s really being said. Very often people are amazed when I tell them what I hear because it’s often something they’ve always felt but never told anyone. It’s not just feedback – it’s hearing your heart, what’s really going on inside of you, as well as hearing what the Lord is saying about you. It’s a very powerful, dynamic process.
Sometimes you may have an issue or obstacle you have been wrestling with all your life. You’ve tried prayer, Bible reading, inner healing, etc. and yet this thing just keeps blocking your progress. Those are my specialty. The Lord has given me a high degree of discernment – what others miss is often revealed to me. I’m very gentle when I tell you what I see or hear – you won’t feel embarrassed or humiliated, I promise. You will feel loved and accepted and understood, maybe for the first time in your life.
I understand pain. I’ve experienced a lot of pain myself – and I’ve helped many, many people uncover and heal their own pain. I’m not shocked by what I hear. It is what it is. We’ll sort it out together and with God’s help, we’ll find the path to healing. Very often that healing is exactly what you need to unlock your destiny – God was waiting for this moment to finally release your breakthrough.
Will it work for ME?
Yes, I believe it will. If you are willing and open, I promise you that the truth you need will be revealed. It doesn’t always happen in just one session – sometimes it’s a progressive thing where you get pieces little-by-little and then when you put them together, you suddenly get a very clear picture of what needs to change or what direction you need to take.
You, of course, are part of this process. The Lord will be speaking to you while we work together. I guarantee it (even if “hearing” God is not an easy process for you – it will get much clearer while we work together). You get to choose what we talk about – I don’t pry or ask a lot of personal questions. I only know what you tell me. It’s up to you how much you want to share – no pressure will come from me.
It won’t work if …
There are some people that this process won’t work for. Let me describe that person and if that is you, please be honest with yourself.
If you are looking for a quick fix, this won’t work.
If you are looking for a way to deny what’s really going on in your life, your heart or your mind, this won’t work.
If you are not willing to be 100% honest with yourself and with God, this won’t work.
If you are not willing to receive the truth about yourself or about your ministry or business, this won’t work.
Who this is for …
If any of the following statements sound like you, then you might want to consider it. Not all of these will “fit” you, but if 1 or 2 statements below really resonates with you, then pay attention. This is for you.
If you are tired of beating your head against the wall wondering why you can’t seem to get your breakthrough, then this is for YOU!
If you need encouragement and support, then this is for YOU!
If you need help discerning what God is saying or where He may be leading you – in life, in ministry, in business, etc., then this is for YOU!
If you want an objective sounding board to listen while you sort out your ideas or your feelings, then this is for YOU!
If you want a mentor, an older Christian to guide you, then this is for YOU!
Nuts & Bolts – What it looks like in real life
For most people, the easiest way for this to work is by telephone. We set up a day and time that works for your schedule where you can be focused and not distracted. We talk for 45 minutes. Then based on our discussion, you take action – whatever we’ve talked about will generally lead to some specific step that you want to take. You take this step (or at least try to) and then we talk again to see how it went. Most people like to talk twice a month so that’s how I’ve set up the cost. Yes, there’s a cost. For many years I did this for free. I would continue to do it for free if I could. My time is limited and very valuable to me. I hope you feel the same way about your time. As a result, I’m going to invest my time where it can make the greatest impact. For now, this is the process I use that allows me to invest in others while also making good use of my time. I’ve also spent years learning how to help people in this way and the results you experience will definitely be worth the investment. I promise. 🙂
The cost is $199/month. This includes the 2 conversations of 45 minutes each as well as unlimited email exchanges during the month. I generally reply within 24-48 hours, Monday through Saturday. My hours are very flexible – I’m available from 10am to 9pm, Eastern Standard Time. Most people can find a time slot that works for them.
If you only want to talk once a month, that’s fine. The cost is $89/month and it doesn’t include the unlimited email support. You can add that for $49/month ($138/month total).
I also meet with people in person (for the same cost) – either at conferences or in my city (Miami, FL). If that’s something you’d like, please let me know. I love to meet people in person.
I promise you this guarantee – you will see your life change as we work together.
If you’re ready to take action on this, give me a call! Or send me an email! Your first call is FREE! You can tell me where you’re at and how I can help you. I’ll also answer any questions you have about me or about the process. Then we’ll schedule our next conversation – that’s when the adventure begins!
Miami, FL USA
Monday thru Saturday, 10am to 9pm, Eastern Standard Time